
A Discussion on Permission-Based Marketing With Adam Robinson
with Shane Barker
Adam Robinson shares how his book Permission (Sh)Marketing reframes the debate around permission-based email tactics. With host Shane Barker, he explores the line between interruption and engagement, drawing from his experience building GetEmails and challenging outdated norms. If you’re curious about marketing ethics, inbox strategy, or carving out new categories, Adam’s candid take will get you rethinking everything you know about email marketing.


Adam Robinson is the Founder and CEO of retention.com, a technology platform designed to help eCommerce businesses recapture lost leads and build stronger customer relationships. A seasoned entrepreneur with a passion for data-driven marketing, Adam developed retention.com to offer real-time insights and automated campaigns that drive revenue and long-term brand loyalty. By blending innovative analytics with personalized messaging, he empowers brands to reconnect with customers at critical touchpoints.
Prior to launching retention.com, Adam held leadership roles in various digital ventures, gaining a deep understanding of performance marketing and consumer behavior. His hands-on approach emphasizes continuous testing, transparency, and measurable results, allowing businesses to adapt quickly in competitive markets. With a keen focus on customer engagement, Adam’s methods aim to foster genuine connections that fuel sustainable success.
Today, Adam regularly shares his expertise through industry events and thought leadership, championing the belief that strategic, customer-centric retention is essential for thriving in modern eCommerce.
Episode Show Notes
In this episode of “The Marketing Growth Podcast,” host Shane Barker wraps up his insightful three-part conversation with Adam Robinson, Co-Founder & CEO of GetEmails, by diving into Adam’s book Permission (Sh)Marketing. Adam explains why he wrote the book—to legitimize a controversial but highly effective email retargeting method—and how it challenges traditional notions of “permission-based” marketing.
Drawing inspiration from Drift and Seth Godin’s Permission Marketing, Adam shares his perspective on how the inbox became a sacred space for marketers, even though platforms like Facebook and Google thrive on interruption-based advertising. He argues that while permission-based marketing is still important, it’s just one approach—effective marketing often involves a mix of both permission and interruption.
Adam also details his book-writing process and how publishing helped him build credibility and define a new marketing category. Shane and Adam explore the implications of data privacy, deliverability, and how brands can ethically and effectively use email to reach warm audiences who’ve already shown interest.
If you’re interested in modern email strategy, brand legitimacy, or marketing innovation, this episode offers a thought-provoking perspective on the evolving rules of digital engagement.
Books mentioned
Permission (Sh)Marketing by Adam Robinson
Permission Marketing by Seth Godin
Positioning by Al Ries and Jack Trout
Brands mentioned
GetEmails
Drift
Facebook
Google
Gmail
Clarity.fm

Welcome to the Marketing Growth podcast. I’m your host, Shane Barker. I’ve been talking to Adam Robinson about his email marketing in the last two episodes. We also touched on how he built his email retargeting software company, GetEmails. He’s also the author of a best-selling book, and I’m curious to find out more about that.
Tell me about your book—was it just Permission Marketing? Tell us what the premise is, because I want to hear about that.

Adam Robinson
So, you know, the highest level is—our product is so controversial, and I thought it was really important to legitimize it in every way possible. We do that a lot with faces, right? From prospecting to sales calls, it’s all video. Like, in the Zoom era, even if the customer’s video is turned off, ours is on. We have all these pre-recorded sales enablement podcasts. If you go to our website, it’s just filled with faces.
Another thing I thought would really help was writing a book about it. Because what’s more legit than that? There’s this company Drift, which if you’re in marketing, you’ve probably heard of. I just loved everything they did.

Been to their show, yeah, in San Francisco.

Adam Robinson
And I think it’s incredible. I try to do a lot of things like their brand. One thing they did was write a book super early on—about this idea of conversational marketing. They tried to create a category. That’s something I thought was important last November. We were going to call it email-based retargeting, but the ads just started working so well, and we got so busy, I got distracted. Now I’ve got a marketing guy helping, so we’re going to focus back on that.
Seth Godin wrote Permission Marketing in 1999. In the book, he says the consumer of the future will be so sophisticated that the TV industrial complex—which he defines as interruption marketing—would die. And instead, all marketing would be permission-based. You’d get permission, slowly build trust, and eventually convert someone. Very gentlemanly.
Google started a year earlier in 1998, and Facebook probably launched around 2000 or 2001. And Seth was just wrong. Like, completely wrong. Not only did permission not become the only way, but interruption marketing evolved. Facebook and Google built trillion-dollar businesses on new ways of interrupting people.

Yeah. Like, too bad. Last time I checked…

Adam Robinson
A trillion. I’m sure Seth’s doing fine, but he totally missed that. The idea just didn’t hold up.

Which is okay—he’s still doing great. But yeah, there’s more going on here.

Adam Robinson
Exactly. It’s just one part of the marketing puzzle. You need your email list, yes, and people who’ve given you permission—but advertising will always involve interruption. Forever. We’ll keep getting better at targeting, sure, and the media will change, but the core idea won’t. If you’re using a free service, you’re going to get advertised to.

It’s called marketing. Our goal is to stay in front of you.

Adam Robinson
Yeah. And there’s this weird thing I’ve noticed—this sacredness to the inbox. Like, it’s the one place where if you send something without permission, you’re a criminal. Since our product is a non-permission-based email tool—and our podcast has the same name—I thought it was clever to call the book Permission (Sh)Marketing.
The book’s out now. And if you hold the cover up, Seth’s book is orange, with a bald dude looking up at the title. Mine is the exact same color, but it’s a guy with hair looking up at the title. Just kind of playful.
The book explains where the product came from, how the tech works, different ways to succeed with it. I didn’t want to be an author—I just wanted a brand like Drift’s. Everything they did was so cool. And I really believed in the category creation concept—like Jack Trout and Positioning. I wanted to plant a flag and say, “This is my space.”
So I wrote it. Probably wrote 40 blog posts in the first eight weeks. Couple a day. Just covering every part of this thing people don’t understand. Like, the other small companies weren’t explaining it. You’re not going to use this product unless you understand what it is.
I’d ask them, “How is this CAN-SPAM compliant?” And their answers were just… not good. Like, “It just is.” Our answer is better. We send people to the FTC website that explains CAN-SPAM—it’s an opt-out law, not opt-in. The reason people think otherwise is because email services and Gmail have marketed it that way.

We’re good. Don’t be scared. Come to the dark side. It’s fine. You’ll be okay—I promise.

Adam Robinson
It’s not a lie. Damn right. And this is a whole other conversation, but email marketing is about engagement now. That’s what matters. They don’t care if you got opt-ins or not—they care about open rates, click rates, complaint rates. You can get emails from completely non-opt-in sources, and if the metrics are solid, it helps your deliverability.

Yeah. The issue is when people buy lists and just spam the hell out of them.

Adam Robinson
Exactly. Spam traps, low engagement, and old lists—that’s what kills you. But if you’re buying fresh, clean data—like what we provide—there are no spam traps. It can’t hurt you.

And it’s people who already visited your website. So to me, they’re warm. They already had some level of interest.
Let’s do this. Knowing what you know now, what would you tell 21-year-old Adam? Like, this is Adam 2.0 talking to Adam 1.0. What advice would you give? Other than, like, go to Clarity.fm immediately and start hiring mentors.

Adam Robinson
You know, I’ve thought about that. I probably would have said—figure out how to start building tech companies sooner. But it was kind of a blessing and a curse. I made a bunch of money trading, had savings, and I just burned through it getting into this lifestyle business. It worked, eventually.
I don’t even know what the better path would’ve been. Starting companies—yeah, maybe. But to do that well, you probably need to be either a salesperson, an engineer, or a really good marketer.

You’d tell Adam 1.0, “Use somebody else’s money.” That’s probably the move. Keep your own, find investors. Don’t burn through the nest egg.

Adam Robinson
Although it’s wonderful not having investors—I mean, my first journey with that really thing, that’s exactly the path that ruins your life. You take investment money, it’s like, quick pop to three and a half million in revenue or something, and then it just stops. And the investors are like, “Here’s more money, go try.” You know what I mean? And it’s scary. So I kind of got to chill for a little while, which was nice.
And part of it was amazing, because I wouldn’t work, you know? Once you’ve got this thing cruising and you’re trying to find new things, it’s not like you’re grinding 12 hours a day. You’re thinking about it all the time, yeah, but you’ve got money coming in. It’s not much work, right? It’s work when it starts working and you’re building the business. But yeah, that is totally unacceptable activity if you have investors. You can’t go travel for two years out of a suitcase.

They’d look at your Instagram and you’d instantly be in trouble. Instantly.

Adam Robinson
So yeah, I mean, but it’s not like it was a comforting thing either, because you also know this thing’s gonna die. You need to be growing at 50 or 100 percent. With tech companies, you see the writing on the wall. It’s like you’re managing this runoff asset.

Yeah, to buy you or… you know, something. You’ve got to get out of it, for sure.

Adam Robinson
Yeah. It’s a weird—you know. Anyway, I’m glad I didn’t have investors.

Yeah, I always love hearing people’s journey, right? Because it’s always different. Once you take money from VC—not that it’s bad—but it definitely changes the game. Then you have a new set of rules and different people you have to talk to. So we’re almost out of time, but what would be three people, dead or alive, that you would have dinner with?
I always love this because it kind of gives me a background on what people like, what they’re into. We’ve had people in the past say Obama. Somebody wanted to have dinner with Jesus, which is awesome. I mean, do your thing. I didn’t say that because your hair and you look like Jesus. I’m just saying that naturally came up. Who would be your three?

Adam Robinson
So, I’m sure a lot of entrepreneurs say this—I just think what Elon Musk is doing, regardless of where that stock’s trading, how he’s losing it on Twitter, it’s just so unbelievable.
Anytime I think about a problem I have, I’m like, this motherfucker made electric cars out of nothing. And now he’s got solar chargers all over America, and he’s sending rockets to Mars and the moon.

And smoking weed with Joe Rogan on his podcast.

Adam Robinson
Like, I think I can figure this one out if that guy…

If I’m just one-tenth as smart as he is, I could probably do this.

Adam Robinson
And another thing about him that I think he understands better than a lot of other super geniuses like him is the power of having these stories to tell.
Most importantly, to the people that work for you—but also the press, your customers, your employees. These incredibly bold visions—that’s what people want to hear. Bezos is trying to solve a similar problem, trying to move heavy industry into space, but it’s so much less sexy than “Occupy Mars.” Something about Elon’s understanding of the narrative.

And it’s how he puts it out there too, right? It’s almost like Apple when they launch stuff—it’s this absolute, crazy experience. Bezos doesn’t have that necessarily. Elon goes, “Let me show you what we’re going to do,” and people are clamoring, “Oh my God, what’s he going to show us?” Then a truck comes out made of titanium that can shoot into the air, and people are like, “You’ve got to be kidding me.”
The way he launches and puts things together—it’s brilliant. He’s next level. And he’s still so young. What’s the next step now? He’s like, “I’m just gonna dig trenches in California, and we’re all going underground.” I mean, why not? We’re going to the moon—why wouldn’t we dig trenches like gophers and make transportation go around underground?

Adam Robinson
But where else could we go?

Yeah, I mean, what’s next? Maybe we just go into different galaxies or something. That’s probably next week.
Okay, so Elon Musk is your big one. Do you have two other ones quickly? Anybody else?

Adam Robinson
Yeah. I think, you know, I always hear stories about my great-grandparents coming to Kansas and settling this freezing and hot land, carrying limestone posts around. I’d just love to know—did you guys fight Indians?

Yeah, what was your journey? What was your life journey?

Adam Robinson
Yeah. So I’d love to talk to my great-grandparents. And then I think the third one, right now, just because I’m so obsessed with their brand, would be David Cancel. I might even be able to do that if I tried hard enough, you know what I mean?

You could. I went to their thing last year in San Francisco—they invited me out as kind of an influencer type deal. And it was awesome. It was a really great event. I think I had like nine donuts or something. It was awesome. They just put on a great show. They do an awesome job.
So if anybody wants to get in contact with you, where can they reach out? LinkedIn? Instagram? What’s your protocol?

Adam Robinson
Yeah, I’m on LinkedIn—Adam Robinson, GetEmails. That’s a good way. You could also just email me: adam@getemails.com. I mean, that’s sort of everybody’s email address. I’m not worried about getting spam from your audience. So email’s probably where you’ll get a response.
I’m not really—despite doing a ton of social media advertising—I’m not really on social. It’s funny that I made seven years ago…

Just kind of a blessing.

Adam Robinson
But there was a time a couple years ago when I was worried about it. I was like, “Am I just never going to be relevant?” But then you realize, like, I can still pay to use this thing. You know, you’re paying one way or the other, right? You either pay with constant attention, or you just pay dollars.

Yeah, that’s the thing. You can tap in anytime you want, and then you can get out. So cool.
You guys—hey, Adam, dude, this was awesome, man. I’m so glad we had you on the podcast today. You guys, if you’re listening to this podcast and you like what you hear, make sure you subscribe. And obviously, reach out to Adam. He talked about the new thing they’re bringing out, where they’re giving free access to—what was it—500 emails a month?

Adam Robinson
Yeah, 500 per month. Forever.

That’s a long time. Forever is a long time. Yeah, and you can’t take it back because it’s on a podcast.

Adam Robinson
I’m leaning into this one. That’s right. It’s just—this is going to be the marketing budget. It’s done. Sort of cogs expand with the growth, so we don’t have to—you guys don’t have to spend.

Go sign up and give Adam your money, for god’s sake. Don’t be cheap, okay? Go do the free stuff, but make sure you get on a paid plan as well.
Adam, you’re a gentleman and a scholar, my friend. Thank you so much for being on the podcast today.

Adam Robinson
Thank you.

I’m sure our listeners have learned a lot about email retargeting and marketing in general. To those listening out there, we promise to invite another amazing marketer on next week’s show. Stay tuned to Shane Barker’s Marketing Growth podcast.